Monday, March 12, 2012

Ada Apa Dengan 12.03.12


Assalamualaikum...

12.03.12...ada apa dengan tarikh ni ye? Cuti umum ke? Klu cuti sekolah ye lah. Hehehe...Cuti kawin pn ye gak. Tp bkn i lah...org lain. huhuhu...

Ok lah...tarikh ni sgt istimewa sbb nampk mcm lawa je nombor tu..kihkih. Actually 33 tahun yg lalu tarikh ni lah menjadikan aku mampu mengecapi nikmat kebesaran ALLAH swt. Maksudnya aku diberanakkan lah. Walaupn x ingat & x tau apa2 tp aku yakin Puan Jamiah Abdullah merupakan insan yg bersusah payah...menggadai nyawa nak bagi aku peluang melihat dunia ciptaan ALLAH swt.

What???? Hari ini aku dah berusia 33 tahun. Wow! amazing UMMI ATIKAH AYUB...ko dah umur 33 tahun. Alhamdulillah...dpt gak ko mencecah umur 33...best apa no ni. ngehngeh...."So how do you feel today?" kata en MMD APIS. Ermmm...my answer no feel...as usual. Hehehe....tp itu kata mulut, dlm hati sape yg tau. Percaya atau tidak..mau or tak mau...kena terima hakikat yg umur aku akan terus jadi turutan menaik...bukan jadi nombor turutan menurun ye( msk skit bab maths lah). Apa perasaan aku ye hari ni. Ikutkan dalam tempoh 33 tahun ni dah byk yg aku rasa...pengalaman pn byk gak. Jadi hamba tuhan & anak of course lah smpai mati...jd pelajar pn dh rasa...jadi kuli kerja pn ada pengalaman. Oppsss...ada 1 yg akan aku rasai pada usia 33 thn ni. Insyaallah jika diizinkan....hehehe...

Rasa apa tu yerk? Ermmm....rasa nak jadi isteri kpd seorang lelaki bergelar suami. Huhuhu... Lama dah simpan rasa tu...blh dikatakan azam gak lah. Ini lah namanya ketentuan Tuhan....sepanjang perjalanan hidup aku...nikmat utk memegang status isteri diberi pada umur aku 33 tahun (masa tulis ni msh anak dara lg. Tunggu bulan 7 nnti) Hahaha...klu org kat kampong kata dah tua....tp bg aku muda lg...asal boleh mantain kesihatan. Kehkeh... So klu en MMD nak tau jawapan apa yg sy rasa umur 33 tahun ni. Jawapan nya RASA NAK KAWIN!!!!HAHAHAHA.... Tak de rasa lain...


Actually, ble dah berusia (bukan tua ye) skit ni x de lah excited sgt nak celebrate besday ke...nak kek becar ke...nak hadiah tu ke or hadiah ni ke. Tp lebih kpd ingin dihargai & disayangi (menunjukkan aku dah matang lah tu...kuang...kuang...). Cukup sekadar ucapan sbg tanda ingatan & doa yg dikirimkan utk kesejahteraan aku. Itu lebih bernilai & perasaan nya lebih menusuk dalam hati. Sobb...sobbb...(sambil lap air mata). Aku sangat2 berterima kasih pada mak & ayah yg telah membesarkan aku dgn susah payah (maklum lah aku ni nakal) selama 33 tahun. Lepas kawin ni mak & ayah x payah susah nak jaga den yo...sbb my encik husband akan tlg jaga aku dgn susah payah. Hehehe... Pada Idah, Uda, Abang & Adik yg sentiasa ingat 12 Mac sbg tarikh besday Kak Long nya...thanks a lot. I luv 4 of u forever...mmuaahhh...

Buat my coming soon husband...also thanks for you. I'm really appreciate ur wish & doa for me & our relation. U are a good man & hopefully awak blh jaga i dgn baik slps ni...& tahan dgn karenah serta prangai i yg ngada2. Hehehee...hadiah utk i akan dituntut after 7hb Julai 2012 tau. Watch out!!! Hahaha... Buat member2 yg asih ingat my tarikh keramat Eda...thanks for the lovely cheese cake & Syud for the wish. Tak lupa pd my future sis in law...also thanks for the wish.

Akhir skali kpd sumer yg bg ucapan...tima ksh byk2. Semoga kalian doa kan yg baik2 utk i ye. So tu UMMI ATIKAH...remember yg awk tu dah 33 tahun. So sepanjang 33 thn ni apa yg dah kau buat & adakah itu sudah cukup memadai. Tepuk dada & tanya iman sndiri..... Tp yg pasti mula apa yg aku nak bila berusia 33 tahun ialah tukar tittle CIK kpd PUAN. Hahaha... Insyaallah... HAPPY BESDAY to Cik Ummi....


Sunday, March 4, 2012

Women are like WAVES...Men are like a RUBBER BANDS

Assalamualaikum...morning to every of u...

This topic i have been taken from my fav book tittle MEN ARE FROM MARS...WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS. A practical guide for me to improving communication getting what i want in my relationship.

1. Women are like WAVES...

A woman is like a wave. When she feels loved her self-esteem rises & falls in a wave motion. When she is feeling really good, she will reach a peak....yahooo...but then suddenly her mood may change & her wave crash down...wwuuuaarrgghh. Buuttt...this crash is temporary. Don't worry darling...after she reaches bottom suddenly her mood will shift & she will again feel a good about herself. Automatically her wave begins to rise back up. This feeling really look like me...hahahaha...

When a woman's wave rises she feels she has an abudance of love to give, but when it falls she feels her inner emptiness & needs to be filled up with love. This time is bottoming out is a time for emotional housecleaning. A woman ability to give & receive love in her relationships is generally a reflection of how she is feeling about herself.


WAVES....

2. Men are like RUBBER BANDS...

Men are like rubber bands. When they pull away, they can stretch only so far before they come springing back. A rubber band is the perfect metaphor to understand the male intimacy cycle. This cycle involves getting close, pulling away & getting close again. Errmmmm...i see & understand that situation. Most women are surprised to realize that even when a man loves a woman periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer. Men instinctively feel this urge to pull away. It is not a decision or choice. It just happens. It is neither his fault nor her fault. It is natural cycle.

Certainly a man may pull away for the some reasons, but he will also pull away even if she done nothing wrong. He may love & trust her, & then suddenly he begins to pull away. Like a stretched rubber band, he will distance himself & then come back on his own. A man pulls away to fulfill his need for independence or autonomy. When he has fully separated, then suddenly he will feel his need for love & intimacy again. Automatically he will be more motivated to give his love & receive the love he need. When a man springs back, he picks up the relationship at whatever degree of intimacy it was when he stretched away.





Cut & Paste from :
John Gray book...the original multi million copy bestseller