Women are like WAVES...Men are like a RUBBER BANDS

Assalamualaikum...morning to every of u...

This topic i have been taken from my fav book tittle MEN ARE FROM MARS...WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS. A practical guide for me to improving communication getting what i want in my relationship.

1. Women are like WAVES...

A woman is like a wave. When she feels loved her self-esteem rises & falls in a wave motion. When she is feeling really good, she will reach a peak....yahooo...but then suddenly her mood may change & her wave crash down...wwuuuaarrgghh. Buuttt...this crash is temporary. Don't worry darling...after she reaches bottom suddenly her mood will shift & she will again feel a good about herself. Automatically her wave begins to rise back up. This feeling really look like me...hahahaha...

When a woman's wave rises she feels she has an abudance of love to give, but when it falls she feels her inner emptiness & needs to be filled up with love. This time is bottoming out is a time for emotional housecleaning. A woman ability to give & receive love in her relationships is generally a reflection of how she is feeling about herself.

WAVES....

2. Men are like RUBBER BANDS...

Men are like rubber bands. When they pull away, they can stretch only so far before they come springing back. A rubber band is the perfect metaphor to understand the male intimacy cycle. This cycle involves getting close, pulling away & getting close again. Errmmmm...i see & understand that situation. Most women are surprised to realize that even when a man loves a woman periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer. Men instinctively feel this urge to pull away. It is not a decision or choice. It just happens. It is neither his fault nor her fault. It is natural cycle.

Certainly a man may pull away for the some reasons, but he will also pull away even if she done nothing wrong. He may love & trust her, & then suddenly he begins to pull away. Like a stretched rubber band, he will distance himself & then come back on his own. A man pulls away to fulfill his need for independence or autonomy. When he has fully separated, then suddenly he will feel his need for love & intimacy again. Automatically he will be more motivated to give his love & receive the love he need. When a man springs back, he picks up the relationship at whatever degree of intimacy it was when he stretched away.

Cut & Paste from :
John Gray book...the original multi million copy bestseller